Mary Poppin’s comeback, “That’s a pie crust promise, easily made, easily broken,” echoes in my head as I listen to partners repeat marriage vows to one another. Weddings may be impressive, but statistics have it; human beings are not good at keeping their promises. The divorce rate is such that almost every person now-a-days has been affected, directly or indirectly, by broken vows. How do we experience a promise fulfilled? A vow is a declaration made by one person to another, binding the person who makes the promise to do, or not do, a specified act. Vows are important. Promises can r...

"Sooner or later, all of us must see that negative feelings toward another person is like tossing dust at him while the wind blows against us. It all comes back." --Vernon Howard, Psycho-PictographyNegative emotions, such as anger, blame, resentment, misery, jealousy, hurt, guilt, shame, and anxiety, often come from thoughts we are having about another person.Vernon Howard states: It is strange how human beings miss the most obvious facts about their negativities toward others. A hateful man seldom reasons, "Hatred toward others makes me miserable, so in the name of common sense I'd better aba...

We each have an inner compass guiding us to fulfill our purpose. We all have an inner knowing that is providing the impetus for us to develop ourselves. We are all evolving, all growing more conscious through all our life experiences; all part of a critical mass of awareness that is awakening within the collective consciousness of humanity. We are each being guided to realize our full potential by realizing our Self. Self-realization is the culmination of humanitys potential, it is the underlying desire within all humans; it is our instinct to evolve. Enlightenment is innate. Your true Self i...

Male Multiple Full-Body Orgasms ©2004 by Tantra Instructor Carla Tara There's a widespread misconception that male orgasm must involve ejaculation. The truth is that men can have several full- body orgasms without ever ejaculating, and those orgasms can be far more satisfying than ordinary ejaculatory orgasms. A man who pays attention to his body's reactions can probably attest to the fact that sometimes he can have an ejaculation that doesn't "move" him at all. It's just a relief of sexual tension created by the stimulation, but no real high--the kind of high that makes lovemaking...

More and more people are looking for mutually beneficial relationships nowadays. They are successful women who are tired of all the games of society come here to share their stories and compare them with the stories of others'. They exchange their experience about life, work, and love there. Of course, they can find a handsome boy who will treat her like a queen to support and pamper there. And they are handsome boys who are struggling in the early part of their career also come here to seek a generous Benefactress to pamper, mentor and take care of them - perhaps to help them finan...

After experiencing what I experienced today at church; I really wonder who’s in charge. Wow, I’m not trying to be sarcastic or mean but enough is enough. I’m not even attempting to meddle in your business; but I really need to know who’s in charge? I wrote an article sometime ago titled “Who’s the Parent you or your child” but to my amazement I see far too many times the child telling their parents what they’re want to do; and what they’re not going to do. Now come on parents’ let’s get it together. Do your children or child tell you what they’re going to do? Do they set the ground rules for y...

“As human beings we don’t lack for things. We lack an appreciation of things. For instance, how often do we notice, much less appreciate, the natural beauty that is there to be seen in our life – a bird singing high atop a telephone pole, a flower growing through the crack in a concrete sidewalk, or the leaves of a tree glistening in the sunlight as we sit in the gridlock of an overcrowded freeway. “In every moment of every day the Good, True and Beautiful is Present, but we are looking elsewhere – we are looking for something we don’t have rather than appreciating What Is. Rather than t...

Most women have two types of bras: everyday use bras and sports bras. No matter what type of bras you wear, however, there are few things more uncomfortable than a bra that fits poorly. The key to being comfortable in your own skin, and feeling confident when you leave the house, is having a bra that fits correctly and comfortably; this can be achieved simply by knowing how to find a bra that fits. Everyday bras Getting proper measurements is the best way to begin. Most lingerie and some department stores offer this service upon request. When you know your measurements, you can begin ...

In a previous article, I stressed the importance of creating Emotional Independence in your relationship in order to keep it healthy and to assure that each of you has the freedom to take charge of your own emotional well-being. While this first key can be your foundation for attaining a state of happiness in your relationship, there are two other keys to be considered that will further contribute to having a successful connection with your partner. The second key to capturing a healthy relationship is Being True to Your Self. This means that you get in touch with your genuine feelings an...

In part 3 part of this 4 part series, we will look at several more practical ways to improve our intimate relationship, to strike the match and set the inner fires of passion burning. So far we have discovered a major shift of attitude regarding our intimate relationships, a shift of focus that applies to other kinds of relationships as well, such as parent, family, friends and business, and the shift is that we do not have to control others to make ourselves happy. Our happiness must well up from within if we are ever to feel truly safe in loving others freely. We have already open...