Whether we like it or not, our life is filled with both obvious and hidden conflicts that are usually caused by clashes between real interests and imaginary reasons. Life itself starts with conflict: the first cry of a baby, its face showing a grimace of suffering and protest against the force that pushes it out, is a good illustration of this first conflict of our lives. We spend all the stages of our lives, our youth, our adult years, and even our senior years, in conflict. Our struggles are eternal and remain our closest companions throughout our existence; thus any mature individual is an ...

We all tend to wonder how different our lives would be if only we had better relationships – a stronger family unit, a more appropriate partner, a choice circle of friends, or more desirable associates; yet many of us keep attracting the same types of people into our lives even aft er some of our undesirable relationships have ended.You’ve already discovered why this is and, if you are taking your millionaire goals seriously, then you have already taken action towards improving your relationship circumstances for the better. In fact, understanding relationship dynamics is key to building and m...

I was once a kid who turned around to ask strangers in the crowd, what should I choose, where should I go, but wrong directions got me lost in the snow. Someone must know, someone should tell every chicken when to break the shell. Maybe a wise old man in Tibet or Brazil, I sought long and far, but I found nil. Time passed and I grew tall but insecure, since for my curiosity, there was no cure, always on the look for a sign I could trust, to determine what I should and what I must. Please, Sir, may I, under conditions, work day and night and hold some ambitions? I posed my question, found ...

Choosing conformity is tantamount to wasting your life in the middle of a crowd after having rendered yourself unable to communicate anything of substance. The alternatives, however, are tough, since most of us have been brought up, trained, and drilled to view approval as a requisite of survival. The problem is that proper human life is hardly possible without frequent dissident behaviour. Whatever rules you are following, how can you be sure that there are no exceptions? Even if you are willing to entrust your life to the wisdom of a leader, how do you make sure that he or she is the ri...

Sometimes, when clients hear, "What is your strategy?", there is a deafening silence on the other end of the line. Not only do they have no strategy, they have no concept of the meaning of the word. So what is a strategy and how do you develop one? The American Heritage College Dictionary’s first definition of strategy is, "The Science and Art of using a nation’s forces to execute approved plans as effectively as possible." Leaving aside the military aspect of this definition, substitute a few words, and for our purposes, you get, "The Science and Art of using a client’s resources and ski...

Today let’s talk about fear and the devastating effect it has on people. Fear is the great enemy of man. It paralyzes the mind and results in reactive thinking. Everyone experiences anxiety at some time in their life and that’s to be expected. The fear we speak of is gripping fear, the type of fear that devitalizes us mentally, emotionally and physically. This type of fear robs us of all rationality as it grips our inner being. Gripping fears steal confidence Gripping fears must be managed or gotten rid of while ordinary cautions that are necessary to intelligent living are maintaine...

The Law of Attraction is always at work in your life but you have to know how to work with it to create your happiness. If you're serious about your personal growth and want to learn how to apply the Universal Laws or just want a real understanding, then I'm going to share with you some of the most valuable information and tools that I have learned about. I'll also steer you toward some important places to find more information and offer key success secrets. The history of the Law of Attraction is ancient and goes back to the beginning of time. As much as it may look to some in our ...

Abraham Lincoln had an uncanny ability to predict behavior. For example, when Lincoln was President, he told one of his associates how every member of Congress would vote on a particular bill. To make the point, he wrote down what their votes would be. Sure enough, when the votes were tallied, Lincoln was on target for virtually every vote cast. How did he do this? No magic or superhuman powers were involved. Lincoln used resources that are within the reach of anyone, and with a bit of practice, you can use them effectively, too. In general, behavior can be predicted in t...

The law of attraction is more than a "feel good" idea or motivational trick. It's an amazingly powerful force that you can use to create exactly the life you want, and this article will teach you how. You already use the law of attraction every day. Unfortunately your current projection might be resulting in exactly the opposite of what you really want. Worrying and complaining about something will actually cause events, circumstances, and people that reflect your complaint or worry to enter your life. The good news is you can quickly and easily reverse this cycle and begin to creat...

There is a lot of talk, books and studies down on how we can improve ourselves, our mental abilities, our physical abilities and our emotional abilities, but the real truth is that what you are telling yourself can impair you just as if you were drunk. You need to examine how you impair yourself in the first place. How do you impair yourself in such a way that it compromises your decision making process? Dr. Masaru Emoto showed us that water can carry "thought exposures" or messages that help you body become healthy or sick. These thought exposures are what you tell yourself on a daily ba...